Hugging Porcupines: How to Build Relationships with Challenging Students
We’ve all heard about the value or relationships, and we’re believers. So how do we build and cultivate those all-important relationships…with some of our most challenging students? What do we do when the very kids who most need positive relationships seem to resist our efforts at relationship-building? Is there anything we can do?
You bet there is!
In this course for K-12 educators, you’ll join Mike Anderson, an award-winning teacher, a best-selling author, and an award-winning consultant, on a journey that explores this challenging topic. You’ll hear stories, both successes and challenges, from his own teaching. You’ll gain practical strategies you can try right away. You will also gain access to many powerful and practical resources to help you as you deepen your thinking and implement strategies.
Warning! Before you register for this course, it’s important to understand that this isn’t a gimmicky get-results-fast with “tricks and tips” kind of course. You’re not going to be encouraged to use sticker charts and incentive plans to “motivate” tough students. (In fact, you’ll be discouraged from using strategies like this!) You already know that quick-fixes won’t work. This course is about tried-and-true practices that will slowly, steadily, and surely, help you gain the trust and mutual respect needed for lasting positive relationships to develop between you and your students. As a bonus, these same strategies will work for all of your students, not just the most challenging!
You should also know, before you go any further, that this isn’t a course with quizzes, tests, required writing assignments, or other accountability measures. This course is about learning for the sake of supporting our students. You should do as much or as little of this as you need in order to better support your toughest kids. That being said, it will probably take about 3-6 hours to complete.
* If you are a school/district leader and are interested in learning more about this course or are interested in discussing a group discount, email Mike Anderson at firstname.lastname@example.org.
- Lectures 39
- Quizzes 0
- Skill level All levels
- Language English
- Students 235
- Certificate Yes
- Assessments Yes
In this introduction, you'll meet Mike and get ready to dig into the content of the course.
Knowing and Understanding Our Students
In this section, you will learn some strategies for getting to know your students better. This is the foundation of building good relationships with them.
Don't Incentivize. Teach Skills.
One of the biggest mistakes educators make with challenging kids is to focus their efforts on incentivizing their behavior. Instead, let's work at teaching them the skills they need to be successful.
People are motivated to take on challenges that they think they can be successful with. Let's make sure the expectations we have for students are reasonable and realistic.
What We Say and How We Say It Matter
Wrap-Up and Conclusion